Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Hilarious and Insightful

While listening to The Church of Laslo on 96.5 The Buzz, I heard an interview with the author of the blog Stuff Christian Culture Likes. The author is a former preacher's kid, who just like me, grew up thoroughly immersed in evangelical subculture and who also like me, has found much of that subculture coming up short of the Jesus' teachings. The observations are dead-on and hilarious. But what I love about the blog is that the humor is mean to call evangelical Christians to a higher standard. To stop trying to be cool, to leave behind pretense and posturing, to quit chasing relevancy and success, to stop ignoring inconsistencies and to live a more authentic life.


A powerful example is Purity Balls. She's not blasting them she admits they're not a bad idea but she calls out dads who will get all dressed up to take their daughter to the purity ball but won't put forth the effort it takes for an honest and day-to-day relationship. The author challenges Christian dads to focus more on having an open, honest and consistent relationship with their daughters than settling for a high-emotion event in which a black-and-white line is drawn.


Of course, the author also struggles with something I also strugle with, the temptation to yield to cynicism. So much of Christian subculture leaves me cynical. But the point isn't Christian subculture or even Christianity in general, the point is Jesus.

Monday, December 28, 2009

Greatest Christmas Present Ever

The parents of Erin's schoolkids usually shower hundreds of dollars worth of gifts on her, it's pretty cool. At the beginning of the year, the PTO has each teacher fill out a Christmas wish list. The parents use that list for buying presents (well, most of them). But amongst all the Starbucks gift cards, Target gift cards and the stupid crap some people insist on buying teachers - Erin received this card. And I quote...

Mrs. Miller,
Thank you for all your continued hard work this year. We are so thankful for you!!

In your bag you will find:

Bracelet - this bracelet explains the significance and reason it was purchased. Supporting fair trade and empowering some entrepreneurs in India.
Ornament and top - even thought Dawson would like this when he's older. They are hand painted by residents in a village in Uganda. They are made of vegetable paint and 100% lead free. They practice fair trade.

Bag - made by women who chose to leave the sex trade industry in Calcutta and make a better life for themselves and their children.

Enclosed you will find a certificate in your honor for one teacher in Darfur to receive a salary for a year. in honor of you and all the wonderful teachers we wanted to help other teachers sustain their living and continue educating. Also, enclosed is a Gap gift card, just for fun!

As well, 3 books were donated to an inner city school with our purchases.

Merry Christmas!

Greater Good

Darfur Peace

Sunday, December 27, 2009

Big 10 Tour

With my trip to Indiana next fall, I'll have completed my tour of watching the Hawks play at every Big Ten stadium.
I just found a website of some guys who toured every Big Ten stadium in a single season, eleven straight weeks.

Enjoy

http://www.thebig10tour.com/index.html

Friday, December 25, 2009

Merry Christmas



I'm writing this on Christmas morning. Both Dawson and Erin are taking naps.

Yesterday, Christmas Eve, was a wonderful day. I did a little bit of grocery shopping and got to enjoy the big crowd at Walmart. Most of the day however, I just laid around the house with my family in my pajamas. After being sick most of the previous day, Dawson was his smiling self again and even taking some solid foods. Just as I was running my last errand to Walmart, the light rain started turning to snow and ice. We locked ourselves up inside, put on a fire and listened to my all-time favorite Christmas album, Oakridge Boys Christmas. After we put Dawson to bed, we laid out his presents and then laid in front of the TV and watched the 1951 version of A Christmas Carol, my all-time favorite Christmas movie. It was a wonderful day.

Today started out pretty good but quickly went downhill. Dawson was very excited over his new toys but just before putting him down for a nap, he regurgitated his breakfast cereal all over the both of us. Erin has gotten progressively sicker as the morning has gone on, seeming to have the stomach flu Dawson had two days ago. She's sleeping right now. Between the ice and snow drifts and the sick family, it looks like we won't be doing all the family stuff we'd planned.

Did I mention Christmas Eve was a wonderful day? It really was.

Merry Christmas, everyone.

UPDATE: Erin' sickness violently peaked about noon yesterday. I took care of Dawson while she stayed in the bathroom. But while she was really sick, I could feel the flu growing in my own body. By 5:00 last night, the flu violently took me as well. I'm not over-stating when I say this might be the sickest I've ever been. After every bodily purging, I did my best "addict in withdrawal" imitation by laying on the floor with cold shakes. Each purging increased my dehydration resulting in more and more painful cramping. And on top of everything, the people who wanted to come help us weren't able to do so because of the snowstorm. Dawson's first Christmas is certainly one we'll remember.

Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Teething and Sinuses

Please ignore the below blog post. The past two weeks, Dawson has been teething and has had a sinus infection, meaning he wakes up crying about every two hours. It's been pretty rough in the Miller house, with the lack of sleep. We got some medicine from the Dr. today so hopefully that will help.

That's parenting, right? Just when you think you've got something figured out you find yourself starting all over again.

I'll never write a "mission accomplished" post again.

Wednesday, December 9, 2009

Parenting job #1 - accomplished

Way before I actually became a parent, I've held to the idea that the point of parenting is to raise the child into a healthy, whole and independent adult. I remind myself of that as I'm almost regretfully watching my little baby grow into a little boy.

The first step in the process of raising a child is to teach them how to sleep. Not only for our sanity (those first few months about killed me) but also for the life-long health of the child. To help us with this, we followed a friend's advice and have been following Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Child (Amazon link on the side of the page).

Well, mission accomplished on the sleep front. Dawson is regularly sleeping through the night, which a few minor wake-ups here and there. He's also right on the nap schedule recommended in Healthy / Happy. A regular night is sleeping from 7:30 - 5:30 or 6:00. 5:30 is still a brutally early wake-up call but at least he's sleeping through the night. Occasionally, Dawson does us a huge favor as he did this morning, sleeping until 7:30! He woke up briefly at 4:30, 5:15 and 6:30 but he's able to self-sooth himself back to sleep.

But here's the whole point of this "mission accomplished," we had quite the struggle in helping Dawson learn how to sleep on his own, mainly midnight screaming sessions. You can read the whole story of how we "broke" his bad habits on Dawson's blog - here.

But isn't that why we become parents? To sacrifice what's comfortable and easy for us so we can teach a young life how to make it in the world? I KNOW the parenting challenges are just beginning, but it's nice to have struggled through to positive results in this first big step of parenting.

Tuesday, December 8, 2009

Orange Bowl Bound

The Hawks are going back to the Orange Bowl. Last time we played there, 48,000 fans showed up but the team fell apart in the second half. Let's hope they follow the first trend and change the second.

Letter to nonbelievers

Check out this article written for Esquire Magazine by Shane Claiborne.
Yesterday, I was listening to someone on 96.5 talking about the rapture, Youth Pastors with frosted hair and cheesy Christian music. I realize it's fun to laugh at stuff like that (I was cracking up) but it's unfortunate that's the picture a lot of people have of Christianity.
This is a much more healthy and biblical picture.

http://www.esquire.com/features/best-and-brightest-2009/shane-claiborne-1209

Check it out.